this is all about the modern day relationships....
When you get into a relationship with someone you love, you tend to get tied up with responsibilities towards the other person.
In today's world people get into relationships and break up within months when they get bored of hanging around with one person. Every individual loves his/her freedom but looses it after getting into a relationship. A girl has to take permision from her parents as well as her boyfriend when she plans out with her friends. Later the girl is asked by her boyfriend to forget all her male-friends and visa-versa. Why cannot one trust the other that if your partner is meeting opposite gender's friends, he/she wont cheat on you. I do agree now a days there are many individuals who take advantage of the TRUST but just give a chance to the ones you love so at the end of the day if something goes wrong, you'll know that it was not your fault.
After a tiring day at school or office we just want to give ourselves some time but in 'YOUR' time, how does the other pushes himself/herself on his/her own into this time period.
The girls are understanding but less on patience whereas the guy is more patient and less understanding. I m sorry if i just hurt some's feelings but this goes for 80% of the population.
At times the guy wants you to plan outings with him rather than with your other friends. Even if you are going out with your friends, he would drop you at the venue and pick you up from there. At times its a good way to spend some time with your partner but its just fun for the initial few months and not in later months as it becomes a necessity for both of them. The girl everytime asks her boyfriend to pick her up and the boyfriend has to do it because of the responsibility he feels towards his girlfriend. I dont understand isn't the girl individual and independent enough to travel alone. would the guy be there her whole life as her chauffeur?
Why does one has to give expensive gifts every month by saving his/her pocket money penny by penny, trust me there is much more fun in the small moments you share with your partner. Why does one has to go to a four or five star restuarant once every month, rather why not go to the juice corner or the snack stall, its much more pocket friendly and you get to spend the quality time too.
There also comes a moment when one gets busy with life and doesn't have time to contact anyone. But if you are in a relationship it becomes impossible to make your partner understand your position until and unless the person is ready to listen to you. Your partner cries in front of you and fights with you because of your crazy time management. I dont understand why one doesn't get it that the other person is just busy to call you and woud contact you as and when he/she gets time. Just give the other person some time to settle things out.
Being best friends more than couples is the best thing. You can talk to the other person so frankly because you dont have to worry about how the other person might feel. And the second thing is best friend knows you very well, he/she knows what you are and loves you for that. But being in relationship with your best friend can be bad sometimes because if something goes wrong in your relationship you might loose your best friend too.
At the end i want all of you to learn something.....
Be independent enough to take your own decisons and not seek for permissions from your partner for every little things. Learn to handle your life the way you want, not how your partner wants you to. Learn all the good things from your partner and give away the bad habits. And last but not the least change your perception towards life for the good so that even if at the end something goes wrong between you and your partner, you take it in a good way and not act like pathetic people whose life stops coz of just one person....And this way it also wont hurt that much...
When you get into a relationship with someone you love, you tend to get tied up with responsibilities towards the other person.
In today's world people get into relationships and break up within months when they get bored of hanging around with one person. Every individual loves his/her freedom but looses it after getting into a relationship. A girl has to take permision from her parents as well as her boyfriend when she plans out with her friends. Later the girl is asked by her boyfriend to forget all her male-friends and visa-versa. Why cannot one trust the other that if your partner is meeting opposite gender's friends, he/she wont cheat on you. I do agree now a days there are many individuals who take advantage of the TRUST but just give a chance to the ones you love so at the end of the day if something goes wrong, you'll know that it was not your fault.
After a tiring day at school or office we just want to give ourselves some time but in 'YOUR' time, how does the other pushes himself/herself on his/her own into this time period.
The girls are understanding but less on patience whereas the guy is more patient and less understanding. I m sorry if i just hurt some's feelings but this goes for 80% of the population.
At times the guy wants you to plan outings with him rather than with your other friends. Even if you are going out with your friends, he would drop you at the venue and pick you up from there. At times its a good way to spend some time with your partner but its just fun for the initial few months and not in later months as it becomes a necessity for both of them. The girl everytime asks her boyfriend to pick her up and the boyfriend has to do it because of the responsibility he feels towards his girlfriend. I dont understand isn't the girl individual and independent enough to travel alone. would the guy be there her whole life as her chauffeur?
Why does one has to give expensive gifts every month by saving his/her pocket money penny by penny, trust me there is much more fun in the small moments you share with your partner. Why does one has to go to a four or five star restuarant once every month, rather why not go to the juice corner or the snack stall, its much more pocket friendly and you get to spend the quality time too.
There also comes a moment when one gets busy with life and doesn't have time to contact anyone. But if you are in a relationship it becomes impossible to make your partner understand your position until and unless the person is ready to listen to you. Your partner cries in front of you and fights with you because of your crazy time management. I dont understand why one doesn't get it that the other person is just busy to call you and woud contact you as and when he/she gets time. Just give the other person some time to settle things out.
Being best friends more than couples is the best thing. You can talk to the other person so frankly because you dont have to worry about how the other person might feel. And the second thing is best friend knows you very well, he/she knows what you are and loves you for that. But being in relationship with your best friend can be bad sometimes because if something goes wrong in your relationship you might loose your best friend too.
At the end i want all of you to learn something.....
Be independent enough to take your own decisons and not seek for permissions from your partner for every little things. Learn to handle your life the way you want, not how your partner wants you to. Learn all the good things from your partner and give away the bad habits. And last but not the least change your perception towards life for the good so that even if at the end something goes wrong between you and your partner, you take it in a good way and not act like pathetic people whose life stops coz of just one person....And this way it also wont hurt that much...
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