Change and the world changes

"Few will have the greatness to bend history itself; but each of us can work to change a small portion of events and in the total of all those acts will be written the history of this generation"
- By Robert F. Kennedy

Change, what does change means?
If we look into the dictionary, Change is the process of altering; a substitution; a transformation; to make or become different; to exchange; to transform.

If one thinks negatively, he would also see the world negatively. He won't notice the few things which makes others happy. The coming of spring season...a new born baby...a newly married couple. He would rather think of negative things behind it like going of one season...the problems with the future of new born baby....or the bride leaving her own family. This person would also spread negativity around him. But if one thinks positively he would have a different and positive way of seeing the world. He would find happiness in anything and everything around him, may it be butterflies or some elderly people in the park. He would think of the spring season coming and the living spirit of the elderly people. He would spread positivity around him. It all depends on the way you tend to see your life and the world. One should never compare his life with others, as he has got no idea what others journey is all about.  One should always see the situation from all sides rather than just thinking about the negative part. A person with many problems in his life would call his life "a problem", but a person who is thinking positively would rather say "life is not a problem to be solved but a reality to be experienced". He would learn from his mistakes.

"Everything changes continually. What history is indeed but a record of change. And if there had been a few changes in the past, there would have been little history to write"
- By Jawaharlal Nehru

If Mahatma Gandhi would not have thought positively and would not have taken any step against the Britishers we would still have been ruled by them. Even after so many failures he did not step back and he was keen on getting India its independence.He pursued all the Indians to dream about the golden bird he was dreaming when he took all those steady steps.

Whatever big we see, was started first as a small thing which later grew up into a big thing because of the care and attention given to it. Before we build up a relationship or try to bring out any changes outside us, first we have to do is to have a proper understanding of ourselves. Observing our self in close proximity will point out our deficiency or our strength. When we work out on our deficiency and built up on our strength we start gaining confidence on ourselves. When we gain confidence on ourselves our words, walk, talk,behavior etc all changes and gives a positive look. Now this positive look will start changing the whole relationship slowly, from better to best and we will start shining like a diamond which shines brightly when polished. Our way of looking at things or situations or surroundings we are in, also changes completely.
The most effective approach to bring out lasting change in the world around is to dream big, believe in yourself and your dream. Dreams are the true interpretation of our inclinations but its on us how we sort and understand them. If we want to change the society, the first step should be to change our selves. Without individual transformation societal transformation is impossible.
If one changes his perception towards something and has a positive thought, the world changes for him. Its a better place to live in, to learn from our mistakes and to make others happy.