To Love Someone

To love someone is not as easy as it seems in the movies. It is not A look to fall in love A simple gesture to know that person is kind A few conversations to entirely know the person. Love is knowing someone entirely and still feel like that person is a mystery. It is the need to know more. Love is a lot of simple gestures of kindness to like that person. Love is endless conversations with still so much more to speak and listen. To love someone it requires patience. You cannot walk away just because something is wrong. Both parties need to talk and sort it out. Always one has to be strong to hold the bond together. Because when the storm hits the tree...one feels week and roots have to hold on. You be the tree once and let him or her be the roots at times. You will keep switching this role. Love needs a lot of efforts and hard work. We live in a society where everything is just a click away. Relationships fall apart as easily as they started. You need to out efforts to make the person feel special and worthwhile. You need to put your ego aside a lot many times than you expected. And my dear that requires hard work. Love at last is rewarding when you still get to hear "i love you" at the end of a huge argument. When you get to hold their hands and feel them tighten their's around you. When the other person takes time to understand you and apologises when he or she hurts you. When they do not take you for granted. Love is patience, efforts and hard work along with feelings and emotions.